The Cinderella Conundrum - The Evil Step-Parent and Worthless Stepchildren in Estate Planning and Settlement



  • Presentation Date 3/31/2023
  • Class Time 10:00 AM CT
  • Duration 150 min.
  • Format In-Person
  • Program Code 132262-89032
  • Ethics Credits: 1.00 hr(s)
  • General Credits: 2.00 hr(s)

Price: $125.00

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The Cinderella Conundrum: The Evil Stepparent and Worthless Stepchildren in Estate Planning and Settlement

Problems between stepchildren and stepparents are as old as the ages. That’s why so many fairy tales feature an evil stepmother or stepfather and why it is not uncommon for stepparents to consider their stepchildren worthless. These situations in estate planning and settlement are a conundrum because no two are alike and there are rarely perfect solutions to avoid the tensions and conflicts that can arise.

The program will include these topics:

1.     Assisting Widows and Widowers in recognizing bad actors

2.      What are the signs of a gold digger

3.      Common concerns and sources of mistrust between stepparents and stepchildren and steps to avoid inflaming an already challenging relationship.

4.      Ante-nuptial agreements

5.      Estate planning for a remarried widow or widower

6.      Unique settlement issues that arise when one spouse from the second marriage dies

7.      Ethical, class, race and gender issues relative to the difficulties these marriages can pose

This program will draw on the wisdom folk and fairy tales teach while addressing applicable legal principals, statutes, and cases in practice.


9:30 a.m.



10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

Program with Networking Lunch included 





Disclaimer:  All views or opinions expressed by any presenter during the course of this CLE is that of the presenter alone and not an opinion of the Oklahoma Bar Association, the employers, or affiliates of the presenters unless specifically stated. Additionally, any materials, including the legal research, are the product of the individual contributor, not the Oklahoma Bar Association. The Oklahoma Bar Association makes no warranty, express or implied, relating to the accuracy or content of these materials. 



Oklahoma Bar Center
1901 N. Lincoln Boulevard
Emerson Hall
Oklahoma City, OK 73105
Phone: 405-416-7000
Fax: 405-416-7001

Date and Time
Friday, March 31, 2023
Time: 10:00 AM CT
Duration: 150 min.

Registration Closes
Friday, March 31, 2023

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